Community guidelines

Help us keep this a respectful, private and welcoming 18+ space.

1. Adults only

You must be at least 18 years old to register, participate or attend an event promoted through this community. Content involving or appearing to involve anyone under 18 is strictly prohibited.

2. Consent comes first

Respect every boundary and every “no”. Do not pressure anyone for conversation, images, personal details, physical contact or meetings.

3. Protect privacy

Never copy, download, publish or forward another member’s photos, messages, location or identifying information without their explicit permission. Do not post screenshots from private areas.

4. Be respectful

Harassment, threats, hate speech, body-shaming, discrimination, impersonation and deliberate humiliation are not welcome. Debate ideas without attacking people.

5. Keep posts lawful and appropriate

Do not post illegal content, non-consensual intimate material, spam, scams, stolen images or content that exploits another person. Make sure you have the right to share everything you upload.

6. Meet safely

For first meetings, consider a public or established venue, tell someone you trust where you are going, arrange your own transport and leave if you feel uncomfortable. Event organisers should clearly describe the venue, expectations, accessibility and costs.

7. Report concerns

Use the contact page to report content or behaviour that may breach these guidelines. Moderators may remove content, restrict accounts or suspend members to protect the community.